Publishing another persons personal video's or picture's without their knowledge or permission is wrong and we can be charged for that.But certain individual does that to seek their revenge.Screwing up another individuals image does not solve any problem but merely adds the misery.Normally,love birds used to share their intimacy moments and cherish them either by snapping nor recording it.The thing that they didnt think of was assuring whether IS IT SAFE ? or CAN WE TRUST OUR PARTNER ? because love birds can turn into Angry Birds,which things went awry between them.This is what happen to a high school student.She allowed her BOYFRIEND to shot their intimacy moment.The video were suppose to kept as their memories but relationship didnt last.Both of them broke-up.The girl's ex-bf confronted her on going BF and told him some nasty things about her,Without any investigation,he broke-up with her.He was still unhappy with the girl,so he uploaded their intimacy video on the net.He add some details of the girl,add with some nasty things about her.Now the video is being circulated and shared in social pages.I felt sorry for the girl's parents once they come to know about the video.Asians,especially Indians,dignity and reputation is the utmost for them.If anything happens that shakes it,without hesitation,they will commit suicide.What the boy did is totally unacceptable.He fall in love with the girl without asking anyone then thats how he suppose to end it.By uploading such video,does not only affect the girl but also her family. How is he going to bear if something happens to girl unless she has the guts to lodge a report against him.
I wonder how some shared the video and posting it around in their social pages.Why they didnt thought of deleting the video? What if it was them or someone from their family,will they share it ? Its a shameful society. Its us that suppose to curb such thing but it was US who encouraging.Some even was having fun commenting on the video.We need to grow up with some morale values.
TRUST,the essential base in a relationship but till what extend one should trust someone ? How to ensure they will not sabotage it ? Relationships that blooms at young age,especially when still at high school is not LOVE but just endurance of the hormones.Don't trust anyone,especially the girls,they should be extra careful if they desperately need to be intimate with their bf. No one to be blame except ourselves because its US gave them the chance to tarnish our dignity.
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This is so sick! SICK!
When I had broken up with my ex, he had also threatened me, saying that he has photos of me that I don't even know of, and that he'll show those to my parents and ruin my life. I know the trauma that I went through. But he didn't know anything like that, because he didn't HAVE any such pics. He would've had to morph them. :/
But who's to blame here, really? Is it the girl, who was stupid enough to trust the guy? Is it the guy, who probably thought that taking revenge is the best way out? Is it all those people who shared it, whose only aim in life is to get some tamasha out of some other person's misery? Or is it social networking and internet, fow actually creating a platform that enables them to do all this?
We'll never know, will we? Sigh...
This is ridiculous..unacceptable but it still happens..one of my friends faced the same issue..her bf even came close to kdinapiing her and yes he literally went to her parents and spoke rubbish about her..Luckily her parents supported her and kicked the guy out of the house..
Well,its lucky to be supported by our parents if we are GIRL because compare to our counterpart,normally girls futures are at stake.
But,how many of us have parents who believes their daughter after watching such videos??
Girls really should be CAREFUL with their intimacy thingy.
Spaceman : totally agree with what you thoughts.Problems does not arise from one side.Girls,probably they should beware of everything whenever they are with their BF,but alas,they are not,'mesmerized' with their lovey dovey moments,they forgot about their own privacy n security,the result ?? own humility and destruction.
Rather then we start blaming others, we should start blaming ourselves for all the problems that happens to us.The root need to be strong if we want the tree to stand strong among the rest despite the downfall might they encounter.
In this world,no matter how tall women stand,one small drop of shit can smash them down because like it or not,women are the vulnerable species unlike the men.
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