.: Appreciation :.

General Election is around the corner and you can see some obvious changes in our rulling government.All of sudden,their concern towards their Rakyat seems to be pouring out extra.Well it's their method of fishing votes.No one loses here,Rakyat is getting the benefits of it.But there are some parties over-exaggerating about it.
It is politic.Everyone plays dirty game,no one is exceptional.It's just who plays the dirtiest matters and how much the Rakyat benefit from it.
Saddening thing is the Rakyat,they seems to be blindfolded by the opposition.How many opposition manage to retain all their promises ?
I'm not supporting the rulling government nor I'm against them but to see with rational,I would say our government did the best for their Rakyat.Hindraf came,roared and created massive impact but the outcome of it?nothing.What did the Malaysian Indians benefits from them?What did they do for Us? Did they do whatever they promised?
Samy Vellu,a prominent leader,but sadly everyone or most of us despise him.As far I know,he was the only man who able to stand against all the debates in the parliment.He did many for the Malaysian Indians,There's University and college for us.He questioned and stood for Malaysian Indians but sadly no one sees this.All they could accuse him is swindiling money.Prove me one politicians who doesn't crave for fortune then I shall say Samy is corrupted.Im not backing up him,I don't like him either,but to see what he did for Indians,then I'm proud of him.
Seeing some status in social sites just irritates me.Now everyone doubts the ruling government after so much they did for us.If we were to be noted around the world,then it's because we are under the right government.Yes,not everything they did was acceptable,but who doesn't make mistake?Which politician had a did his JOB perfectly ? Government is run by humans,not GOD to be perfect !

.: Why the Shy ? :.

 

Selvaraghavan,one of notable director in Kollywood ( Tamil  Movie  Industry ) has came out  new movie with his brother,Dhanush in the lead paired-up with newcomer,Richa in Mayakam Enna ( Why The Shy ) .

 The movie depicted about an ambitious wild life photographer wanna-be who gave up everything in his just because he  got cheated by his idol.Selva who known for portraying complex  emotions involving  especially among  man and woman and also the supporting characters,friends,family and the society.

Karthik and his sister is  orphanage.They are taken care by Karthik's best friend, Sundhar's father.He is known as Genius among his friends which he doesn't know why exactly.Richa comes in as Sundhar's non official girlfriend who will be teased and mocked by  Sundhar's friend,especially Dhanush.Like they say,opposite attracts.The differences between them cliched.Yamini who suppose to date Sundhar was  actually eyeing Karthik as their chemistry was felt with their differences.Yamini,boldly shows her feelings  towards Karthik,but  Karthik finds way to avoid until lose his control and kissed her when she  hugged him.But Karthik ran away after the incident due to the guilty feeling towards his best friend.All these hide and seek feelings between Karthik and Yamini was unaware by Sundhar until he saw both of them hugging each other,with some arguments burst out between the boys,Sundhar eventually agreed his friend to marry his girlfriend.

The second half of the movie was where the story started to reveal,when Dhanush who was heartbroken when his photo's was rejected by his idol but suddenly surprises him when the photo was chosen for IPC award.He  read the news on the newspaper and felled down unconsciously from his room balcony.He survived the fall but changed into a maniac who vent out his anger and disappointment to  everyone and becomes barbarian once he is drunk which caused miscarriage of their first baby.Yamini stopped  talking to Karthik as she was so upset for what happen but kept helping and taking care of him.Karthik, didn't help  himself,he didn't move on or filed a case against his idol.No one knows the reason of Karthik's changes,not his wife nor his friends.

Yamini, on the other hand,stood devotionaly by her husband despite the miseries and tortures given by Karthik.Yamini  didn't give up on her husband.Her husband's friend even tried to take advantage towards Yamini but she strongly rejected him without insulting him which made him  realize his shameful act towards his friend's wife. She tries to patch back the broken pieces of her husband.She sends out her husband's  photos to every publication companies until being noted by a company which eventually brought Karthik to limelight  in the photography industry and got nominated for the IPC award.Karthik appreciated

Selva,again potrayed a weak and  depressing character in the lame society and  this time the coverage was about the 'loser  essence ' in a photographer's life.He also did his touches about friendships and love.Nothing to say about Dhanush as he as usual adapt his character very well.Dhanush known for playing such character and he was known from such character.Richa,in the other hand,acted very well and proved she entered the industry to stay longer.Her wifey role,depicted as a modern devoted wifey was impressive.Only two song remain in my thoughts,Voda Voda and Pirai Thedum.G.V scored that very well.

Though the movie is good but it's seems like dragging.The part where the father encourage his son and Karthik to drink to solve their differences  wasn't  appropriate  because it might depicted a wrong message to the audience.Yes,we should only take the good lesson but not all the audience  are capable to do that.The pregnancy of Yamini,she won't talk to her husband but  allows him to make her pregnant which  seems hanging.Other than that,its a movie without Masala or  flying fighting.

Mayakam Enna, good movie without a WOW factor.

 

.: Lagging :.

I'm not abandoning my blog but was busy baby sitting and doing the house chores,had not time to think of a topic.I don't wish to turn my blog into a online diary by updating what is happening in my own world.Its too exposing though would be interesting to  read.
At night,I just have no mood to surf so end up playing games till 3am.That is very bad.Im trying to sleep but Im not sleepy.Though I'm tired with what I'm doing now but it's not the exactly exhaust you feel when you work.I miss working.

Anyway,there's some topic I would like to discuss or to  rate my thoughts but i'm still getting the right resources to scribble about it.

Hopefully by tonight or tomorrow. 

Forgotten in Rememberance : Scandalious Love

This craving for love and intimacy begins in us when we are just young children,especially young girls who loves to read fairy tales.Their favorite part was always when the prince and princess fell in love.They believed someday a prince would come into their life. For many of us, even as adults, we still believe as they did.

What we were often unaware of, is that we are created for intimacy. We are deeply relational and desire to be loved and accepted. This love that most of us try to find and then attain throughout our lives, are actually impossible in and of ourselves,because our people will always let us down. Even those who love us most will not be able to live up to our expectations.
 

We crave to be filled with the sense of satisfaction and confidence, which often results when we are in intimate relationships. Some strive to fill that with sex and love and are often left feeling empty and broken. It’s possible we are looking in the wrong place to fill that emptiness.Therefore,we shouldn't say that scandal relationship form because of a rocky-relationship.It blooms when we so lonely and craving for love and attention,and we get it from someone that not suppose to shower on us.Its hard to avoid such arousing because the physically we need it but mentally we are stopping ourselves.No one wish to end up in a scandal relation which will  sabotage their themselves.After all we are just a normal human and we are weak when we are lack of something.

This was similar thing that happened to a girl,( Pisces )who was carefree and happy go lucky.She least expected that she would end up falling for a married man, ( Sagittarius ).Sagittarius is married for 9years and has 2 kids and expecting another one soon.He is different compare to his friends,who loves to flirts around even some of them are married.Unlike his friends,Sagittarius despise girls who is too friendly,girls that have too many guy friends and also girls that active in her social life.Too him such girls are believed to have low moral integrity.But he is not aware that he will end up falling for a girl that has all the attitude he hates.

Throughout his life,Sagittarius had only love 1 girl but they broke up.That left a deep impact in him until the misery started to take control his life.His parents couldn't bear to see their one and only son in misery,so they  made him to marry a girl of their choice.Sagittarius wasn't keen in the marriage but he agreed for his mother's sake due  to the persuasion.It took months for him to adapt and accept his wife as his life partner as he couldn't get over his ex.Life goes on with him.

Pisces,in the other hand,is young and vibrant girl.Like other teenagers,she has conflict with her parents about her social life especially regarding her night life.Because of these issue,she always accuse her parents for not loving her.Pisces is single,therefore she has no one close to share her feelings.She felt lonely.Her friends were her comfort zone.Every weekend,she will put up at her friends place,since its convenient for her to hang out.Like usual Saturday nights,they all went for clubbing and they met few guys who are elderly to them.Pisces immediately got attached to the leader of this elderly group.RJ's like Pisces attitude,so he took her as his sister.After few meets and sharing all her depressing stories with RJ and his wife,they invited her to move in with them.Pisces took this as a ticket to her freedom.This is when she met Sagittarius, RJ's close friend.RJ always sing praises about his friend.This unknowingly attracted Pisces towards Sagittarius but she wasn't aware of the attraction as it didn't cross her mind that she will fall for a married man.

Sagittarius,whom hates girls,started to show interest towards Pisces.What attracted him ? Pisces smile.Her smile that made his heart beat to stomp very fast.He didn't fall for her at the first sight,but it was the first smile of hers.Sagittarius knows his limit,therefore he keeps away from her but unknowingly,his eyes will always trace for Pisces appearance whenever he visit RJ.RJ introduces Pisces as his sister to all his friend and told them to treat her as theirs too.Pisces treated RJ's friends as brother,except Sagittarius.She never once addressed him as brother and she didn't realize about it nor the others.

Things heated up between them when they went for a drink in a club.RJ's nephew came down and Sagittarius was at RJ's place,so all of them decided to have to end the night in a club.Everyone was drunk and enjoying themselves.Pisces and Sagittarius was enjoying gazing and smiling towards  each other.Before leaving,they exchanged numbers without anyone's knowledge.Since that day,they started to sms and call each other.No one knows about this development between them.Their affairs was kept in silent.Both also avoided their guilty consciou, because at the moment,they are in love.Sagittarius started to visit RJ frequently or everyday, which was a surprise for RJ and his wife because he doesn't hang out with his friend on working days.

The other changes that RJ noticed in his friend, was seeing his sending sms'es. He was not surprised but shocked because Sagittarius don't know how to sms.RJ sensed something fishy.With his wife help,RJ read all the sms was sent to Sagittarius by Pisces.He got upset with Pisces for betraying his trust towards her.Pisces felt guilty for destroying the trust.She explained to RJ's wife and took all the blame.She told them she didn't realize she would fall for Sagittarius.After the confrontation,Pisces moved out from RJ's place.She did that so that she could bring an end to her scandal relationship, but it was impossible for them.They decide to maintain their relation without anyone's knowledge,but the secret only lasted for 8 months.

Pisces and Sagittarius shared intimate moments together.They were blind folded in this explicit pleasure.It brought them together and strengthen their relationship.Sagittarius confessed to Pisces that  he wasn't planning  to have a serious relationship with her in the beginning.He thought to get rid of her once everything is over between them  but the care and attention given by Pisces changed his feeling towards her.He had felled in love again after 9 years.He knows he is married but the feelings towards Pisces was special and he realized that he is in love in her,whose age is same with his sister but all that didn't stop him.Pisces was happy to hear that as she was very much in love with him too.She didn't expect herself for falling for someone elderly to her.Sagittarius confronted RJ and told him about his feelings is real for Pisces.He knows he is betraying his wife but it's too late because he couldn't let go Pisces.RJ knows nothing can stop both of them.He only fear the problem that might happen once Sagittarius's wife comes to know about his friend's scandal.

Things went happily for them until Sagittarius's wife sniffed the scent of her husband's relationship.She saw the changes in her husband but she didn't suspect him.Sagittarius's phone bills was the cause.Things  busted between them when she asked Sagittarius about  the unknown number in the bill.The call rates for that number  was  the highest and it's  the frequent number been called.Sagittarius tried to manipulate but his wife knows  he is lying to her.She shared her life with him for 9 years and she knows too well about her husband. Sagittarius gave up and admits his mistake.He knows one day his wife will come to know about his scandal but he didnt expect it will be too soon.He felt guilty for his wife and Pisces.That's when he realized  he had to break up with Pisces.He apologized to his wife and told her to give a chance to repent his mistake but everything  was too late.Sagittarius's wife couldn't accept the betrayal.She called up all her brothers and Sagittarius's family.She wanted justice.Sagittarius pleaded her not to do so and settle it between them,but  she didn't bother his plead.

She even called up Pisces and tarnished her with vulgar words.When her brothers arrived,she have Pisces number to them and asked them to deal with her.Her elder brother called Pisces and shouted at her.Pisces was crying as she was helpless.She has no one to defend her.No one knows about her relationship.Her consciousness got pricked with the questions being asked by  Sagittarius's wife.

Pisces felt bad for what she had done.She promised Sagittarius's wife that she will leave her husband alone,but Sagittarius's wife wasn't happy.She wants to see her and need her to write a letter of confession.Pisces disagreed.She knows if she goes,then they will not spare her.Sagittarius's wife got pissed when Pisces denied her request.She started to threaten Pisces  that she is going to come see her parents.Pisces was shaken up.She pleaded  to her not to do so,but Sagittarius's wife didn't listen.Pisces just hanged up and ignored the calls.Pisces didn't know what to do.She kept looking outside her house.She is scared Sagittarius's wife might shows up and create a scene in front of her house.Pisces regretted  for what she had done.She is ashamed of herself for involving with another woman's man.She used hate and look down at woman who steals another women's man and today she end up being one.She despise herself.She wished she couldn't reverse the time and reset everything back to normal.

 

It was night,Pisces was relieved that no one came and ll of sudden,her phone started to ring.It's Sagittarius.Pisces hesitate to answer.She fears it might be his wife.Then she received a sms asking her to answer the call as it's him calling.She answered but kept quiet.Her tears flows the moment she hears his voice.Sagittarius apologized and told her not to worry of what had happened.He assured her that no one will come looking for her or her family.That calmed Pisces.Then,he told her he suppose to break up but he couldn't.That is why his wife got agitated.Again he said sorry to her for dragging her into this mess.He admits it's his mistake as he's aware of his marital status and suppose to keep distance from her.He even said,that he couldn't tell his wife he will leave her as his mind was asking him to say but his heart was stopping  him.He realized he had felled deeply for Pisces.Pisces kept quiet listening to it.Then he told her,if she wants to leave him because of this,he is willing to let her go.He hanged up the phone by saying I Love You.Again,Pisces just kept quiet.She heard too many thing in a day that got her brain numb.

The problem went on for months.Sagittarius told his wife he is not giving up Pisces and asked her to do what she want.He said he will not chase her away nor stop her from moving out.He also willing to divorce her if that is what she wants but he is not leaving Pisces.Sagittarius's wife got shocked.She thought all the tarnishing,fights,humiliation will make her husband to leave Pisces but she was wrong.He said he would have leave her if the wife have talked to him rather then  shouting and screaming. He agitated when  she humiliated him in front of his children,relative,his father and sisters.He was also tarnished in front of the house where the entire neighborhood was witnessing the scene.She spit on his face,throwed shoes and the worst was when she filed a complaint  against him and made him arrested.He pleaded to his wife not to do but she was stubborn.Her anger was controlling her.Due to that,she lost her husband.

 

Soon,Pisces's family also came to know about her relationship.They couldn't believe their daughter would do such thing.To defend her love,she went against her family.She fought with her parents.Got humiliated by her siblings.She lost her respect from her family members.No one talks to her.She was left all alone.She lost her peace,her happiness,all for her relationship.Pisces and Sagittarius wasn't happy even when they are together.They try to cheer up themselves but they just couldn't.When their relationship was a secret,they were happy and carefree but everything change once everyone knows it.Pisces wanted everyone to know about her relation.She was so eager but now she is regretting.Pisces didn't expect such problem will arise.Both of them lost everything because of their own act but yet they find it too hard to let go each other.Until Pisces confronted Sagittarius to make a decision.

She couldn't bear seeing everyone being hurt because of them.It's not fair for them.She wants Sagittarius to decide with whom he wants to live,his wife or herself.She told him she is willing to leave everyone,her family,friends,career for his sake and also doesn't mind taking care of his children if they were to follow him.Sagittarius couldn't decide.He asked for time which was dragged for almost 1 year.Pisces waited patiently.She understand his  plight and it's not an easy decision to be made.He has to think everything.

Pisces started to lose her patience.She started to doubt Sagittarius.She realized that Sagittarius will not marry her but she doesn't want to assume it,so again she confronted Sagittarius.This time she can't wait too long for him to make up his mind as she has to let know her parents.Her parents gave her two option.Either she moves out from the house if she plans to marry Sagittarius or marry the man of their choice.She felt pressured due to this.Pisces told Sagittarius her situation,but there was no response from him.She was so upset.She thought Sagittarius cheated her.Then Sagittarius told her,it's his children that holding him up.He couldn't bear to be separated from them or separates them from their mother.Pisces finally understood his situation,so she opted for a break-up.

Both of them was so upset,but they are left with no other option.Sagittarius asked  Pisces to make a promise to him.He doesn't wants her to tell his wife about their break up.He said,even though they are not together,he wants everyone from his side to think that they are still together.He doesn't want to accept back his wife or live back with her.He wants to live  his life for his children.Pisces was reluctant.She was planning to  call his wife and  inform her about their separation and it was her that caused the separation between them,so it's her responsibility to patch them back.Though she hates saying all that,but that's the truth.But Sagittarius disagreed.He said he can never get back to his wife as his thought will not be with her and he can never  forget what the  wife did to him.He prefer the silence between him and his wife.

Pisces kept quiet.Finally she agreed and promised Sagittarius.Both went on separate ways but they do keep in touch.Pisces agreed with her family choice.Sagittarius doesn't talk to his wife till now.Its been almost 1 year plus Pisces left him,yet he still thinks of her and never fail to sms Pisces.He has a small hope that she might return to him one day.Pisces in the other hand,haven't got married  yet.She keeps praying to have delays in her  marriage.She replies Sagittarius sms once in while.

Pisces hold herself not to reply him frequently,if not it will be hard for them to move on.It kills her to do so but she knows that is the best way to end it.She realized,no matter where she goes,with whom she is,she will not be able to  forget Sagittarius.Even she is married,she knows she can never erase Sagittarius from her.Pisces even told her parents when she told them about her break up with Sagittarius.Her heart,soul and love will always belongs to  Sagittarius.They just kept quiet.She even told them if it was lust as they thought,she wouldn't defended so much for him nor he will go against his entire family for her sake.Though they couldn't be together,their thoughts and feelings are always together.

Will Pisces get marry ? Will Sagittarius able to lead his life without talking to his wife or will he accept back his  wife ? Will Pisces and Sagittarius reunite again ?

Only future has the answers.

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The incident depicted above is based from real life incident.The girl,Pisces is not married yet.She is still praying so not to get married and the Man,Sagittarius is still sending sms to Pisces.He is not talking to his wife either.Their silence is going on between them.Its a scandalicious  relationship but LOVE knows No Boundaries.To some,may say it's just a lustful feeling between them,to some its Love.I have no answer for this.I have to wait for the answer.

The Brutal Barbarian

Resource : Facebook

This article was being shared in the local social network,Facebook.I was so shocked and sad to read this.Yes,I'm sharing it and not doing anything about it,but even I want to do something,what am I to do ? I don't have super duper power to do something nor I'm not a Super Woman to identify the 5 barbarian who did this to the pour soul. At least by sharing, I'm creating the awareness and en lighting the whole world ( hopefully ) about this hideous incidence.

This is Asma,a 14 years old girl from Malvani,Malad,Mumbai.She was kidnapped from her locality by 5 men who was living in the samw area in the month of May 2011.She was held in the captivity in the very same area.Complaint was made to the police but it was believed that no action was taken.

Asma was raped innumerable times by the 5 men and after 2-3 months, they seem to lose interest in her.The big question was " WHO WILL SPEND MONEY FOR HER FOOD ?
 

Since then,they started to throw the responsible on each otherResult : She was given 1 vada-pav in 4-5 days.After 5 months,she was found in a garden.Asma was a bag of bones when she was found.When the doctors operated her,they found pieces of paper,mud,soil,stones in her stomach.According them,because of hunger,she ate up the papers where the food usually given,and her situation deteriorated,she ate up stones,soils and so many stuff.The doctors were unable to explain her situation.After muchsuffering for more than 5 months,Asma believed to passed away on 14th November 2011 (Children's Day).

We might have heard many stories wherein people are slaughtered & raped,but imagine a 14 years old girl being gang raped for months.She was dying every moment for more than 150 days.Out of all the whores and prostitutes,small girls still being targeted by these maniac creatures.Asma suppose to be playing with her friends and attending school but SIGH !!

This is one of the horrific incidents happen that made me cry after the incident of the small girl got ran by car and no one helped the poor girl which happen at China.What are we going to do to save our children,especially the young ones,the girls from such incidents ? What  are the curb? Who to  be blamed?

Some of us can say such thing will not happen in our community or country or state but what if it HAPPENS ? are we going to wait until that ? to see our children, in a plastic bag ? Rather waiting for someone to do something,we should be the one doing something to protect our community.We need to stop being SELFISH !!!

 

I personally pray for ASMA,May Her Soul Rest In Peace...

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Life : Expect the Unexpected

Its a whole month of Marriages,Wedding Receptions,Engagements.I'm flooded with so many invitations until I have to arrange and set reminder whose is when and what time and where.GOSH !!!I can't  afford to miss any of those functions because all of them are important persons to me.So if I miss any one of the function,I can imagine myself being mocked.I need to prepare suitable attires for each occasions and I can't be wearing the same ones.


Most of my friends are married.It's only handful of us who are at the down-line of marriage world.Today,one of my school mate invited me to her wedding dinner reception.Seeing her,suddenly I recalled all the school time moments.She is not one of my favorite friend.We were just a Hi Bye friends and its nice of her to still remember me to invite me to her wedding.Time flies very fast.


Look at all of us.How we use to be and how are we now ? So many thing changed and seriously I just realized it.I mean,yeah I'm aware of the changes but blending into it,I just entered.Seeing the peoples who we thought great back at school are being the worst person now,and the one's that we least expected turned out to be someone successful,really surprising how Life changes its table.
Seeing myself,I'm surprised either.Who thought,end of the day,I would be siting at home,taking care parents and households and blogging about it ?? hahahaha.I wonder,how I will be in the next 10 years ? Well,one thing I'm sure is,I would be married with kids.Something that I'm pretty sure will happen.Damn !!

All the Hassles and Dazzles

Week with massive issues.Baby Sajeef was sick,need to give full attention and care since I'm the one baby-sits him.Need to attend the house chores at the same time because mummy is not feeling well.By the day dusk, I'm so exhausted to go online.But there's another reason too.Avoiding someone,someone that I used to be so close until i look forward to talk everyday.But now,I'm avoiding him totally.WHY ? A question that I'm unable to get an answer.
Apart of all these,my parents are very keen in seeking alliance for me.Being an Indian, we are abide with the astrology.So normally,big decisions like marriages,seeking dates to start businesses or any sensitive or important matters,Indians seek astrologers guidance to see what the FUTURE stores of us.It does not mean that,what ever the Astrologer say will happen but its just a pre caution that this might happen.

In my case,he advised that I should be married by next year march,that is before my birthday if I'm not married,then the appropriate time frame for marriage will come when I'm 30.Well,maybe it sound ridiculous to some but why take the risk since the MEN population is decreasing.HeHeHe.
My dad told me there's a man at the age of 31 years old and a government civilian.He is a tall,fair handsome man but the minor thing about him is his salary which is only RM1800, and I was shock.How am I to run a family with that much of money in today's world? I told my dad frankly that I'm not asking a multimillionaire or someone that can provide me posh life but atleast with some luxuries.With that small,amount I doubt whether will I be siting in a Honda ? I'm just being practical so that in the end I don't want to regret or make anyone regret.
So today,dad brought a marriage broker.A person who will find the right partner for the one who seek his service.He came and saw me.I was in my shorts.Then he asked for my photo,which I have to be in my traditional attire.Mum looked at me and I told her,sorry lappie crashed and all the photos are gone.
Once,the old man left,dad came to me and said,' I need a photo of you in saree by 4pm today' and I was uh?today ?
 
Left no option,I went to my room and started to tie my saree.I wasn't happy with myself.I'm not sure what,but I wasn't happy.Something seem wrong,but I managed it somehow.My parents fail in snapping,so I have to snap myself using the timer function.Dad suggested to go studio but I reluctant because I'm not confident to have a studio shot in saree.With much struggle,manage to get some snaps.I wasnt happy with it too cause my face looked so tired and the weather was so hot. With the help of some editing tool,some how I manage to print a photo of myself.Hope the one who going to marry me will like me.LoL !!

Many can ask why arranged marriage not love ? It's because of my sister  and some of the person that I know  who fall in love and got married but their life wasn't a fantasy as they imagined when they were in love.Being too long in relationship spoils everything once you are married.Basically there is nothing to be explored as an Official Husband and Wife since everything is done during the courtship.So life seems to be boring for the most couples who marriages based on Love.Even arrange marriages has its own troubles,like marrying someone whom you hardly know.Some does say that you can know about someone in a week but I differ that because its impossible.They might show their best behavior just to impress you and once you're hooked,that's when the colors starts to fade.It's a risk that I'm taking but I completely trust my parents because so far whatever they have chose for me,it was the best.So no doubt in this too and it's a interesting moments,like the man comes to see you ,then you decide whether you like or not,then the whole process will be so different.Hopefully,my man will be someone that cooperates with me in everything.Nothing much is expected because it's better to not to expect much to avoid disappointment.All the best to me.

Me in saree.24/11/2011

Under-Age Intimacy Revenge

Publishing another persons personal video's or picture's without their knowledge or permission is wrong and we can be charged for that.But certain individual does that to seek their revenge.Screwing up another individuals image does not solve any problem but merely adds the misery.Normally,love birds used to share their intimacy moments and cherish them either by snapping nor recording it.The thing that they didnt think of was assuring whether IS IT SAFE ? or CAN WE TRUST OUR PARTNER ? because love birds can turn into Angry Birds,which things went awry between them.


This is what happen to a high school student.She allowed her BOYFRIEND to shot their intimacy moment.The video were suppose to kept as their memories but relationship didnt last.Both of them broke-up.The girl's ex-bf confronted her on going BF and told him some nasty things about her,Without any investigation,he broke-up with her.He was still unhappy with the girl,so he uploaded their intimacy video on the net.He add some details of the girl,add with some nasty things about her.Now the video is being circulated and shared in social pages.I felt sorry for the girl's parents once they come to know about the video.Asians,especially Indians,dignity and reputation is the utmost for them.If anything happens that shakes it,without hesitation,they will commit suicide.What the boy did is totally unacceptable.He fall in love with the girl without asking anyone then thats how he suppose to end  it.By uploading such video,does not only affect the girl but also  her family. How is he going to bear if something happens to girl unless she has the guts to lodge a report against him.


I wonder how some shared the video and posting it around in their social pages.Why they didnt thought of deleting the video? What if it was them or someone from their family,will they share it ? Its a shameful society. Its us that suppose to curb such thing but it was US who encouraging.Some even was having fun commenting on the video.We need to grow up with some morale values.


TRUST,the essential base in a relationship but till what extend one should trust someone ? How to ensure they will not sabotage it ? Relationships that blooms at young age,especially when still at high school   is not LOVE but just endurance of the hormones.Don't trust anyone,especially the girls,they should be extra careful if they desperately need to be intimate with their bf. No one to be blame except ourselves because its US gave them the chance to tarnish our dignity.

Sense'less Hatred

They hate each other, The Tamilan's and the Malayali, two major ethnicity under Hindu religion.Why they hate each other ? Too many answers but none was acceptable because it was nonsense. Their accusations thrown is like small kids fighting for sweets. 

Malayali's, are similar like the Punjabi community.They uphold their significant bond between themselves.These seem unacceptable to certain group.Compare to other ethnic, like the Telugus,Gujeratis or Marathi, these Malayali community tend to stand out among others and love to boost themselves whenever they are in different group. I am not sure how true it is but at certain extend, it is true.Maybe it because of their status or achievement but its their effort brought them up, so i think one should not measure their achievements to RATED their ethnicity.
The most famous term to call a Malayali is ' Manje Thunni ' which means back stabber,betrayer or someone that cant be trusted. Till now,there is no valid reason why they are called such.I find it nonsense as there's black sheep in every community,nation,country. You dont have to be a Malayali to betray someone or prove me that its only MALAYALI thats cheats,back-stab the one trust them.Anyone ?


Browse through the social networks and you can find loads pages.profiles open for Malayali's and some for the Sikhs or Punjabi, the rest im unsure because i have seen one yet.They are hated for these as it seems these people are crowding the sites. It is true but its their way to maintain their bonding. 
There's one blogger posted in his blog about a discussion he read in a Malayali Social Page.A Malayali posted a question ' WHY MALAYALI'S MARRYING THE NON-MALAYALI'S ? '. He seems to be annoyed with the question as in his blog, he kept repeating STUPID MALAYALI'S and TAMILANS'D doesnt want to marry the Malayali's. First of all, did the question indicate that why Malayali marrying Tamilan ? Nope. Secondly, inter caste, mix marriages normally take place based on individual interest. I can assure that, no religion or ethnic force their community to practice such marriages as they prefer they get married to the same kind so that their traditions and culture will not be forgotten or modified. Is there any wrong to think like that ? and as for inter caste or mix marriage, no religion forbids it too. So what is the problem now to be provoked ? Non Malayali's can be Muslims,Christians or anyone. Why must one assume it them that being pointed ? 


I though the past generations was the one who had such issues but alas, we the more advanced community,who exposed to various diversity still act like a nomad. One forgot, though they are from different ethnic, they are still under one big umbrella of INDIAN. Like or not, we are still together. Wonder what will next generation will have to ask about their ethnicity.


PEACE