Apart of all these,my parents are very keen in seeking alliance for me.Being an Indian, we are abide with the astrology.So normally,big decisions like marriages,seeking dates to start businesses or any sensitive or important matters,Indians seek astrologers guidance to see what the FUTURE stores of us.It does not mean that,what ever the Astrologer say will happen but its just a pre caution that this might happen.
In my case,he advised that I should be married by next year march,that is before my birthday if I'm not married,then the appropriate time frame for marriage will come when I'm 30.Well,maybe it sound ridiculous to some but why take the risk since the MEN population is decreasing.HeHeHe.
My dad told me there's a man at the age of 31 years old and a government civilian.He is a tall,fair handsome man but the minor thing about him is his salary which is only RM1800, and I was shock.How am I to run a family with that much of money in today's world? I told my dad frankly that I'm not asking a multimillionaire or someone that can provide me posh life but atleast with some luxuries.With that small,amount I doubt whether will I be siting in a Honda ? I'm just being practical so that in the end I don't want to regret or make anyone regret.
So today,dad brought a marriage broker.A person who will find the right partner for the one who seek his service.He came and saw me.I was in my shorts.Then he asked for my photo,which I have to be in my traditional attire.Mum looked at me and I told her,sorry lappie crashed and all the photos are gone.
Once,the old man left,dad came to me and said,' I need a photo of you in saree by 4pm today' and I was uh?today ?
Left no option,I went to my room and started to tie my saree.I wasn't happy with myself.I'm not sure what,but I wasn't happy.Something seem wrong,but I managed it somehow.My parents fail in snapping,so I have to snap myself using the timer function.Dad suggested to go studio but I reluctant because I'm not confident to have a studio shot in saree.With much struggle,manage to get some snaps.I wasnt happy with it too cause my face looked so tired and the weather was so hot. With the help of some editing tool,some how I manage to print a photo of myself.Hope the one who going to marry me will like me.LoL !!
Many can ask why arranged marriage not love ? It's because of my sister and some of the person that I know who fall in love and got married but their life wasn't a fantasy as they imagined when they were in love.Being too long in relationship spoils everything once you are married.Basically there is nothing to be explored as an Official Husband and Wife since everything is done during the courtship.So life seems to be boring for the most couples who marriages based on Love.Even arrange marriages has its own troubles,like marrying someone whom you hardly know.Some does say that you can know about someone in a week but I differ that because its impossible.They might show their best behavior just to impress you and once you're hooked,that's when the colors starts to fade.It's a risk that I'm taking but I completely trust my parents because so far whatever they have chose for me,it was the best.So no doubt in this too and it's a interesting moments,like the man comes to see you ,then you decide whether you like or not,then the whole process will be so different.Hopefully,my man will be someone that cooperates with me in everything.Nothing much is expected because it's better to not to expect much to avoid disappointment.All the best to me.
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| Me in saree.24/11/2011 |
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